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Lessons from Rural India: Lighting up 100 mighty flames

January 14, 2018 by Khushboo 14 Comments

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A few of my 100 mighty flames

Imagine a world where you don’t have a voice to make your opinions heard, you are a labor, albeit an unpaid one, you are considered to be stupid or let’s use a less harsh term, “not smart enough”, you take care of an entire family yet are denied basic dignities of life i.e. a toilet.

Sounds like a scary place right?

Sadly, a majority of women in rural India are leading this exact same life. Now, you might think I am generalizing or I am painting a stark picture. After all, every now and then don’t we see videos of brilliant women who are winning accolades? Don’t we read about villages being declared open defecation free?

There are little rays of hope that shine every now and then.  You would be surprised to know that not very far from Mumbai there are villages where women did not have toilets till 2014. Many of them still don’t.

And what about their voice? Are they being heard? Are they considered to be a valued member in their family beyond the work that they do?

Being a city girl, I never gave any of these things a single thought. My life priorities revolved around shopping, reading and making money. My life goal was to become a famous writer and live on a hill station like Ruskin Bond. I wanted to travel the world and stay in the most luxurious places. I had ‘normal’ dreams; luxury roti, luxury kapda and a luxury makaan.

It is strange how small, inconsequential events have a deep impact on your life and they derail the most carefully laid out plans. The year was 2010 and the place was Sophia College at Grant Road. A friend had dragged me to attend a lecture by Aruna Roy. I was prepared to be bored and I had made plans to sneak off in the interval, too.

A few minutes into the lecture I couldn’t move. I couldn’t believe the reality she was presenting to me. Surely, it couldn’t be true. I mean we were a developing country with a great GDP growth rate. People were flourishing, everybody had a cell phone and the malls had such clean washrooms.

It was one of the strangest experiences in my life and it made me stay up all night looking up on things, reading articles and watching documentaries. This first flame was lit by Aruna Roy who did not even know me and yet she had the most profound impact in my life.

‘Everybody loves a good drought’ by P. Sainath and India Untouched, a documentary on untouchability made me weep.

I, too, wanted to light as many flames as I could. Two years later, armed with a degree in Rural Development, I set out to light a few flames.

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Working in Rural India
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Self Group Meeting to discuss issues that are of importance to them
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Waghachiwadi: A village where the flames are bright and hopeful
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The vehicle that helps me light up so many flames
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Our torch bearers for transforming India in the future
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I have done many things in the past years as a rural development professional. In my three years of working in the development sector, I have learned about building toilets, installing Water ATM’s and working with rural schools.

However, one of the best things that I have learned and have had the privileged to do was to meet so many inspiring women, men and children who are fighting every day to ensure a better future. It is these people who help me keep my flame alive.

A few flames have been lit by me, too. I can tell you about a 50-year-old entrepreneur who invested in a paper plate making business without even knowing the basics, I can tell you about a little girl who dreams of serving her community by being a doctor and I can tell you about the thousands of people who continue to toil and work towards a dream of transforming India into a developed nation.

Not everything is rosy; working in the rural sector has its own challenges. A few of my flames flickered away without any fight. A few of them gave up midway. But there were a few who stayed put and shined brightly. They inspired a few others and started lighting their own 100 flames. I hope that the ones that burn brightly, keep shining and the ones that are flickering get the strength to carry on the good work they are doing.

Working in the development sector is tough and I give up every single day. What gets me through my day is the smile on faces of women when they get a toilet, seeing a classroom full of children studying and of course a cup of chai and Parle G biscuit offered by tai in a village in the middle of nowhere who proclaims that I work too hard and eat very little.

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  1. B T Motihar says

    January 15, 2018 at 7:08 am

    If every one start little flames India will grow at the rate no other country can match it.

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  2. pushpendra dwivedi says

    January 15, 2018 at 9:37 am

    very nice inspirational post

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  3. Fatima Torres says

    January 15, 2018 at 2:19 pm

    It’s amazing to think of the things we take for granted here in America, while in India there are people who don’t have the simple luxury of being able to sit on a toilet. It’s heartbreaking to think of their living conditions. Glad there are ways others are helping.

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  4. Anita Singh says

    January 15, 2018 at 6:50 pm

    Ye sab itna easy nahi hai, per aapnr jo kiya wo sabke liye ek example hai, salute you buttu
    Aaj ki luxurious life ko chor kar itni mushkil me rehna, sabko samjhana, ek sath le kar chalna kitna mushkil hai, lakin aapne kar dikhaya ??
    Aapke parents ko bhi salute hai, unko aapne kaise agree kiya hoga
    Keep it up, Good luck ??

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  5. SUJATA TAWDE says

    January 16, 2018 at 6:35 am

    Many of us know that , that ‘Working in the rural sector has its own challenges , the path is thorny’ , So none of us tries. I feel sorry that A few of your flames flickered away without any fight. At the same time I feel very happy and proud of you cause there are a few who stayed put , shined brightly , inspired a few others and started lighting their own 100 flames.
    Wish you all the best always Khushboo.

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  6. LavandaMichelle says

    January 16, 2018 at 2:24 pm

    What a very powerful and inspiring post. Shinning bright can be challenges when faced with so many difficulties. I am inspired that the flames continue to shine.

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  7. Joanna says

    January 16, 2018 at 4:01 pm

    When I first traveled to India the culture shock kicked it from the moment I got out of the airport. My first visit was simply amazement on how people can live like that and how women don’t have much rights, especially in villages. I have returned two more times to India and got to know more in depth the village life, i went to schools and orphanages for children with deficiencies, children rejected by their own families. It was such a hard reality. I admire these kind of projects that might seem tiny in such a big country, but the world changes with the mentality of each individual. As many people change, as many minds open.

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  8. Marissa Zurfluh says

    January 16, 2018 at 6:41 pm

    I really love this message. Seeing everyone trying to make a difference really is inspiring.

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  9. Wendy Polisi says

    January 16, 2018 at 6:44 pm

    I love seeing this. I would love to learn more about Indian culture.

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  10. Sarah Bailey says

    January 16, 2018 at 8:30 pm

    I am going to have to check out the book that inspired this post, when we all work together there is something amazing that could happen.

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  11. Aduke Schulist says

    January 17, 2018 at 5:35 am

    Isn’t it incredible how one person can spark a flame in so many others and things can be made better. I can’t imagine living in some of those conditions.

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  12. Snehalata jain says

    January 17, 2018 at 7:58 am

    What a Amazing post dear, I loved every thing you wrote

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  13. Garf says

    January 20, 2018 at 2:25 pm

    I don’t know much about the culture in India so thanks for sharing these insights.

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  14. Kashifah Shaikh says

    January 24, 2018 at 1:10 pm

    *Speechless* ❤❤

    U are doing a great job ma’am! Hats off to you… Seriously ????

    Reply

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